because of people like weng, pratley, kong, sansan etc..
They make me realise a whole new definition of friends..
A defines friends very strictly, you have to spend ALOT of time with that person, very happily, doing alot of things with that person because you enjoy it, not cos it's by circumstances, then you are considered as friends.
B choose to give all out to who he consider as friends, and move on from those people who don't appreciate his presence as a friend. He thinks that people should change and improve from who they were, and if friends can't support or accept it, then he will continue to move on from them. These friends slow you down in your life. (Very strong and controversial way of living though)
C helped me to analyse from a very different point of view, encourage and always made me feel so much better even though I may be in the wrong. He will never deject me, but he always make me realise my own mistakes by telling me from another angle without a tinge of blame from his words. He makes me realise things, all the time.
D worries for everyone, worry about the person's well-being and afraid to offend others. D felt guilt all the time and would rather taking all the pain and inconvenience to himself.
*'he' used as a general term for man, not male/ female.
It is them, who made me think that I should redefine my world of friends.
At the age of twenty-one, I will come out with my own definition.
I want true friends.
More people who have walked past my life are now re-entering.
I promise to myself that I will nurture these friendships properly, even if I die single one day.
Gracias :)
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