New realisation.

Read yenru's blog about something like...

(This is how I decipher it la kk)

You can accept it if: You love this person but you don't get any in return.

You canNOT accept it if: Somebody has been loving you for the longest time but you just don't reciprocate, he stops loving you and leaves you.

How true?

I'm sure most people have experienced the one-sided love kind of things. It's like, okay he doesn't love me so maybe I should move on? That shouldn't be too difficult right?

Heavily emphasized that there are exceptions like people become suicidal and bla bla or having some freaks claim to love you etc, but yea, people like me is what I'm talking about hahahaha. I strongly believe that 'people like me' is a big group of people LOL.

Then there bound to be someone who loves you, but for some reason you just don't accept the love!

Varies from people, the duration of such persistence comes in a wide range.

And so, maybe, you get used to being loved?

But, not everyone are able to give free love whole of their lives without getting any of them back.

So gradually they realised that moving on IS the solution. So they forced themselves to move on (maybe not force though haha).

So... from being loved to being NOT loved anymore, hmmmm.

To me it's a snatched-away.

So used to receiving love, no need to return, and it's a sudden action of one person that affects the emotion of another in one instance. Ouch.

It does hurt.

One way or another I'm kind of experiencing it right now.

It is so hard to find someone who develops mutual feelings with you, the positive and right kind of mutual feelings. But before I can understand how the whole thing works, at the snap of the fingers, it's ALL gone.

I never trust that I can change my life.

Things are predestined.

Blame it on my religion, my laziness to fight for it or whatever.

When things happen, they just happen. And vice versa.

So, I tend to move on easier.

Good for me, but cruel to the opposition.